I am guilty of saying yes when the obvious answer is no. In the name of saying ‘yes’ to ‘growth’, a weird sense of saying yes grew in me. To be presentable, and to be nice, and to be acceptable was my motto a while ago. I was too nice to hurt someone, or too generous to say no. That habit turned out costly in the long run. Being too available for people often strikes back. Especially to those who don't deserve your valuable presence. You disrespect yourself every time when you become too available, or free for someone. Take time out for yourself. Be busy in furnishing the beautiful architecture that you are. Be invested in your growth and your path of life. Who cares about how they feel or what they think of you. You will have done nothing to people and they will still find a way to hate you. So, who cares? Screw them.
You > someone’s validation
Growth > acceptance of others
Being nice to everyone < being nice to yourself
Your interest > boring group plans
Saying yes to everything < saying yes to your heart
Short term fun/ long term pain < short term pain/ long term blessing
Worrying about other’s perception < your self image (how you perceive yourself)
You > them
You and you and you.
Good luck!
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